To Divorce? Or Not?

You know if you aren't married or have never been married.

 

              Why would you tell people married people to get a divorce. God put them together for a reason, and because of that reason Satan refuse to see God's blessings. So Satan harden the heart of the two, to make them think their marriage is irreconcilable. You know, he trick their minds into thinking there's not anything either one can say or do to work it out!
                       Instead as a Christian you aught to encourage them to find solutions, communicate in a positive manner, and use the word of God to lift them up, pray with them, and pray for them. 

"Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. " 

                     When God allow two people to get married the two really do become one. 

There was a pastor,  a couple of friends that weren't married, and friends in miserable marriages, that encouraged a couple's divorce during a time of their weakness. They sought help not realizing  the pastor was lost and of course encouraged divorce because he was divorced. Therefore he didn't see anything wrong with divorce. With that pastor experiencing a divorce through his pain and emotional bondage from the first, it would have been hard for him to encourage someone to do something he couldn't even do right! (Marriage to 1 woman)

"1 Corinthians 7:3, 5 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency." 

                    Think about what the bible teach us, when we are saved we are married to Christ/God so I ask you are we allowed to divorce Christ or would you divorce Christ the minute something doesn't go your way? NO 

"Matthew 19:5-6, 8 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so."

                    If you read in the book of Revelations it talks about us Christians and how Jesus was sent and prepared a way for us, but it is reference as to a husband and wife!!! "Revelation 19:7-8 Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness of saints." 

                    Well even though I am divorce, I cannot encourage a married woman to get divorce no matter what she goes through JUST REMEMBER IT TAKES TWO.  It's not always a one sided  story, no matter how much you put the blame on the other. Ask yourself "What am/did I do wrong?" just think about what your contribution to the problem was.  No one person is without fault!